The danger of heroes?
Most of us have heroes that we look up to and that inspire us to greater heights, whether in our chosen field(s) of creativity or in our lives in general.
Seeing and knowing someone else has reached the kind of achievements we would like for ourselves, or just observing the way someone conducts themselves and lives their lives, can of course be a guiding light to some extent and give us considerable motivation and direction.
But is there possibly a danger of holding our heroes in too high esteem? And in trying to follow them too closely?
We are, after all, unique individuals. Whilst we may have great respect and admiration for someone who has achieved what we consider as greatness in their life, it doesn't necessary follow that the same kind of achievements are right for us, or will give us a similar fulfillment.
They are who they are, you are who you are. Both extraordinary people, capable of unleashing your creative abilities and harnessing your unique talents to build the life that's right and best for you.
So think about YOUR uniqueness. What are your greatest strengths? What's your vision for a life of creative fulfillment?
Imagine if someone were to interview your close friends and family. What would they say your major strengths and talents are?
These needn't all be "identity level" strengths, eg "she's a wonderful writer" or "he's a superb pianist."
Think about all of the more subtle strengths you have also. Maybe you're a great listener. Maybe you're incredibly determined. Maybe you have the ability to be calm in a crisis? Maybe you're a very supportive friend?
See how many strengths and talents you can come up with, and create your unique strengths profile...
Seeing and knowing someone else has reached the kind of achievements we would like for ourselves, or just observing the way someone conducts themselves and lives their lives, can of course be a guiding light to some extent and give us considerable motivation and direction.
But is there possibly a danger of holding our heroes in too high esteem? And in trying to follow them too closely?
We are, after all, unique individuals. Whilst we may have great respect and admiration for someone who has achieved what we consider as greatness in their life, it doesn't necessary follow that the same kind of achievements are right for us, or will give us a similar fulfillment.
They are who they are, you are who you are. Both extraordinary people, capable of unleashing your creative abilities and harnessing your unique talents to build the life that's right and best for you.
So think about YOUR uniqueness. What are your greatest strengths? What's your vision for a life of creative fulfillment?
Imagine if someone were to interview your close friends and family. What would they say your major strengths and talents are?
These needn't all be "identity level" strengths, eg "she's a wonderful writer" or "he's a superb pianist."
Think about all of the more subtle strengths you have also. Maybe you're a great listener. Maybe you're incredibly determined. Maybe you have the ability to be calm in a crisis? Maybe you're a very supportive friend?
See how many strengths and talents you can come up with, and create your unique strengths profile...
As a Creativity Coach I work with people who are frustrated that their creative talents are underused. 
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